Why a Life Coach?

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WHY A LIFE COACH?

Because YOU deserve a space that is ALL about you, discovering in an unlimited environment, supported, heard, seen, embraced, “who you truly are and your infinite potential”…You actually have NO idea, if you did you would be in a different place…Unsettled, is an empowering place, it is the whisper of your soul saying, lets grow…this is NOT all life is meant to be…come on, lets peak outside of our “comfort zone” this place is dark.

We all have opportunities come our way when we realise “I am stuck”, I am unable to “see this” …I am unable to change this… I need some help, some guidance, some direction, some clarity, some confirmation…I really need someone to “walk with me”, show me HOW?

This is what a life coach will give you… all in one. Plus, really “kick you butt” wake you up and nudge you into your own personal power and change…

WHY “often” NOT A PSYCHOLOGIST

Because there is “often” NOTHING wrong with you per-say! You do not need “anti-depressants” or anything else that puts you into a LIMBO state of LESS FEELING…You just need someone willing to “give you permission to feel,live, show you HOW to let go, forgive and be whole again, or maybe for the first time!!!  WE don’t seem to be able to give that to ourselves. I feel maybe it is important to acknowledge that there are people that need a breather, and that is what “medication gives you”, considering the levels of violent abuse happening around us, there is a space for this…I wish for you that it is not too long that it becomes a dependence which puts you in a state of “limbo 4 Life”…… Be mindful, awake and chose to NOT cop out?

How often have you just felt relief when you have been blessed to talk with someone, share something with someone, who “listens” and allows you to vent share say do be and then just says, OK! I hear you, nothing wrong, it is where you are, etc… no blame, no shame, no “someone else’s fault”…When you experience this space with a professional qualified Life Coach, who is trained and committed to reflecting back to you, solution orientated interaction, you become solution orientated yourself. You see, your friends, your family, will do their best, HOWEVER they are only coming from their own STUFF, and may find it difficult to be objective, and OBJECTIVE is necessary, because objective is EMPOWERING, dis-associated, it is in this place that you can see things for what they truly are and choose to NOT take it personally, let it go, and move on…BUT YOU NEED SUPPORT, we are not able to do this for ourselves…

No one is doing anything TO you, they are doing their best with what they believe to be true, YES you can end up a victim or casualty of someone else’s stuff, through relationship, however, they do not know any better “right now”, I believe that if people DID know better they would be better people…

You know what you know and you don’t know what you don’t know, and you know how you KNOW what you know, it is your reality, if it is not then you do not know…

Physiologists tend to focus of HOW you got to today,and who was responsible for getting you there (blame, digging, unraveling past, and PAST is past, it is STORY, and it cannot be changed. NOW can be changed to serve your NOW and future em-poweringly.

Life Coaches tend to focus on where you are TODAY, where do you want to be, How do we get you there, and we engage is solution based processes to clear the way…Yes we embrace who you have become and why, in a way that affords you the opportunity, to forgive others and yourself, and start to LIVE from a more empowering “If it is to be, it is up to me” attitude…

We support you becoming comfortable with owning “100% responsibility” for your reality, we reflect solution back to you, we let go of the need to blame anything or anyone outside of you…Living from this attitude of accountability is FREEDOM to BECOME who you truly are…we navigate this journey with you, together we find and establish YOU, the true authentic powerful heart centered YOU…Through God centered encouragement…

Give yourself the gift of this supported journey ALL about YOU! With God – Everything is Possible.

Life Coach Lynda

lifecoachlynda@icloud.com

We are our hardest Judge

It came to my attention recently, of how harsh I am with my own “judgement” this obviously could indicate that I am a judge of others, and then what is “judgement”…?

I found out recently that I have a deep and very subtle yet dominant belief that I am “less of a home maker” than others…

I recently visited a few homes and for the first time SAW it all differently, and embraced that we are all different, even when it comes to keeping house. This does not indicate that anyone does it right or wrong…but differently, as their priorities are different… and that is okay!

Some peoples homes are less tidy, less light, less open, less welcoming, but then that is based on my perception of what is light and what is less…

You see it is purely and only OUR PERCEPTION where did we acquire our perception, well from many places, events and influences, and in some cases we could be resisting an influence to such a degree that we neglect our own love and light for our homes and sacred space…

Your home is a representation of how your inner workings are free to move and work, when you are surrounded with clutter in your environment, this is quite a sincere indication that your inner emotional mental world is cluttered scattered and unutilised…un-free to flower and move in the breeze…and will have less space energetically to receive…

When last did you take time to go through a cupboard that you had not visited for a month, maybe even a year?

When last did you go through your clothing and take out all the stuff you have not worn for over a season or two?

When last did you clear out your working space, of papers files and stuff that you no longer need?

When last did you look through your book shelves at books you have that you have not read, or ones you have and will not read again…

Clear it our, bless it, and send it on to someone who will USE it…

It is the most liberating self loving thing you can do FOR YOU…

you free yourself to attract more NEW stuff that is more relevant to your NOW ness!

We change, our tastes change, our needs change, or likes and dis like change, all through the valuable events and experiences we enjoy through our valuable lives, allow yourself the space and freedom to embrace this NEW ness…make space by letting go of all that that no longer resonates, and you know how you know it no longer resonates, it is sitting some where in your energy field or space and it is not being noticed, used, enjoyed, celebrated, loved…

This goes for “thoughts and Judgement’s TOO”, when you notice them, be interested, look into them, and when you resonate with the feedback, embrace it, forgive yourself for “putting yourself and others through the scrutiny” and let it go… and when it pops up again as a thought or feeling or judgement, which it will do to “test you”, smile and say “I got this one”, it is done…

 

Thank you 🙂

enjoy loving YOU…

Life Coach Lynda

In every experience is an opportunity…

Recently my websites were hacked and abused by some “bored lifeless energy that had nothing better to do that impose on other peoples space”, this doesn’t only happen here on the net it happens everywhere, and HOW do we deal with it, WE LEARN HOW to attract different energy, and through awareness, and mindful choices and actions we “start again”, that is a warrior for the light attitude!

In life and living you will always come up to energy that is “DARK” it is a polarity to the light, however light deletes dark, if the person holding the light is focused and immovably committed to their path of meaningful transparent contributing energy…

When stuff like this comes your way, recognise that you are the light and shine it brighter, get back on track and represent your truth your journey and your purpose to make a difference in the world, when you do what you love and love what you do “NOTHING AND NO ONE CAN STOP YOU-but you!”

12th April 2014