We are our hardest Judge

It came to my attention recently, of how harsh I am with my own “judgement” this obviously could indicate that I am a judge of others, and then what is “judgement”…?

I found out recently that I have a deep and very subtle yet dominant belief that I am “less of a home maker” than others…

I recently visited a few homes and for the first time SAW it all differently, and embraced that we are all different, even when it comes to keeping house. This does not indicate that anyone does it right or wrong…but differently, as their priorities are different… and that is okay!

Some peoples homes are less tidy, less light, less open, less welcoming, but then that is based on my perception of what is light and what is less…

You see it is purely and only OUR PERCEPTION where did we acquire our perception, well from many places, events and influences, and in some cases we could be resisting an influence to such a degree that we neglect our own love and light for our homes and sacred space…

Your home is a representation of how your inner workings are free to move and work, when you are surrounded with clutter in your environment, this is quite a sincere indication that your inner emotional mental world is cluttered scattered and unutilised…un-free to flower and move in the breeze…and will have less space energetically to receive…

When last did you take time to go through a cupboard that you had not visited for a month, maybe even a year?

When last did you go through your clothing and take out all the stuff you have not worn for over a season or two?

When last did you clear out your working space, of papers files and stuff that you no longer need?

When last did you look through your book shelves at books you have that you have not read, or ones you have and will not read again…

Clear it our, bless it, and send it on to someone who will USE it…

It is the most liberating self loving thing you can do FOR YOU…

you free yourself to attract more NEW stuff that is more relevant to your NOW ness!

We change, our tastes change, our needs change, or likes and dis like change, all through the valuable events and experiences we enjoy through our valuable lives, allow yourself the space and freedom to embrace this NEW ness…make space by letting go of all that that no longer resonates, and you know how you know it no longer resonates, it is sitting some where in your energy field or space and it is not being noticed, used, enjoyed, celebrated, loved…

This goes for “thoughts and Judgement’s TOO”, when you notice them, be interested, look into them, and when you resonate with the feedback, embrace it, forgive yourself for “putting yourself and others through the scrutiny” and let it go… and when it pops up again as a thought or feeling or judgement, which it will do to “test you”, smile and say “I got this one”, it is done…

 

Thank you 🙂

enjoy loving YOU…

Life Coach Lynda