Why a Life Coach?

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WHY A LIFE COACH?

Because YOU deserve a space that is ALL about you, discovering in an unlimited environment, supported, heard, seen, embraced, “who you truly are and your infinite potential”…You actually have NO idea, if you did you would be in a different place…Unsettled, is an empowering place, it is the whisper of your soul saying, lets grow…this is NOT all life is meant to be…come on, lets peak outside of our “comfort zone” this place is dark.

We all have opportunities come our way when we realise “I am stuck”, I am unable to “see this” …I am unable to change this… I need some help, some guidance, some direction, some clarity, some confirmation…I really need someone to “walk with me”, show me HOW?

This is what a life coach will give you… all in one. Plus, really “kick you butt” wake you up and nudge you into your own personal power and change…

WHY “often” NOT A PSYCHOLOGIST

Because there is “often” NOTHING wrong with you per-say! You do not need “anti-depressants” or anything else that puts you into a LIMBO state of LESS FEELING…You just need someone willing to “give you permission to feel,live, show you HOW to let go, forgive and be whole again, or maybe for the first time!!!  WE don’t seem to be able to give that to ourselves. I feel maybe it is important to acknowledge that there are people that need a breather, and that is what “medication gives you”, considering the levels of violent abuse happening around us, there is a space for this…I wish for you that it is not too long that it becomes a dependence which puts you in a state of “limbo 4 Life”…… Be mindful, awake and chose to NOT cop out?

How often have you just felt relief when you have been blessed to talk with someone, share something with someone, who “listens” and allows you to vent share say do be and then just says, OK! I hear you, nothing wrong, it is where you are, etc… no blame, no shame, no “someone else’s fault”…When you experience this space with a professional qualified Life Coach, who is trained and committed to reflecting back to you, solution orientated interaction, you become solution orientated yourself. You see, your friends, your family, will do their best, HOWEVER they are only coming from their own STUFF, and may find it difficult to be objective, and OBJECTIVE is necessary, because objective is EMPOWERING, dis-associated, it is in this place that you can see things for what they truly are and choose to NOT take it personally, let it go, and move on…BUT YOU NEED SUPPORT, we are not able to do this for ourselves…

No one is doing anything TO you, they are doing their best with what they believe to be true, YES you can end up a victim or casualty of someone else’s stuff, through relationship, however, they do not know any better “right now”, I believe that if people DID know better they would be better people…

You know what you know and you don’t know what you don’t know, and you know how you KNOW what you know, it is your reality, if it is not then you do not know…

Physiologists tend to focus of HOW you got to today,and who was responsible for getting you there (blame, digging, unraveling past, and PAST is past, it is STORY, and it cannot be changed. NOW can be changed to serve your NOW and future em-poweringly.

Life Coaches tend to focus on where you are TODAY, where do you want to be, How do we get you there, and we engage is solution based processes to clear the way…Yes we embrace who you have become and why, in a way that affords you the opportunity, to forgive others and yourself, and start to LIVE from a more empowering “If it is to be, it is up to me” attitude…

We support you becoming comfortable with owning “100% responsibility” for your reality, we reflect solution back to you, we let go of the need to blame anything or anyone outside of you…Living from this attitude of accountability is FREEDOM to BECOME who you truly are…we navigate this journey with you, together we find and establish YOU, the true authentic powerful heart centered YOU…Through God centered encouragement…

Give yourself the gift of this supported journey ALL about YOU! With God – Everything is Possible.

Life Coach Lynda

lifecoachlynda@icloud.com